Parenting Toward The Kingdom Orthodox | Principles Of Childrearing

The Psalmist declares, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord” (Psalm 127:3). The Orthodox ethos begins by recognizing that children belong to God. Parents are stewards, not owners. This shifts the goal from molding a child in our own image to helping them discover the unique image of God they were created to become.

We get up. We go to Confession. We ask our child’s forgiveness. And together, parent and child, we walk toward the Kingdom—not as perfect people, but as forgiven sinners holding hands on the way to the Father’s house. The Psalmist declares, “Behold, children are a heritage

The word "asceticism" often sounds harsh, but it simply means training or discipline . In a world of instant gratification, Orthodox parenting encourages small, loving denials. This doesn't mean harsh deprivation, but teaching a child to say “no” to a third cookie, “later” to a screen, or “thank you” for a simple gift. These tiny acts build nepsis (watchfulness)—the ability to choose the good over the easy. This shifts the goal from molding a child